How Wonderful Life Really Is

Recently I have come to lose several people due to illnesses, accidents and those just living to a very old age. No matter whether the lost was sudden or known to happen, this event changes your life forever. But how?
There is another loss some of my patients deal with and that is when a family member chooses not to talk to them or want to be in their life anymore. This type of loss to them is worse than a death because they know the person is still living and breathing. How do you handle this type of lose. First stay in control of your emotions. Second some feel it is helpful to write them an open feeling/thought letter explaining how they feel about the situation. Third, some do nothing at all and just wait and leave an open door in their heart in case the situation changes. There is no “right” way to handle this loss so talk out your feelings and thoughts with someone and see what best helps you heal.